Up until this point in my pregnancy I haven't really had much of an urge to "nest" or really do much around our home. Every single day someone asks how the nursery is coming along and I usually shrug my shoulders and tell them we have a room....and that's about it. I haven't really been in a hurry for many different reasons, mainly because we plan to have baby in our room for the first few months, so her nursery hasn't been on the top of my list of priorities. However, sometime this week I started to freak out. We really haven't done anything...and it's the middle of January...and this child will be here before I know it. So, my dear loving husband has promised me that this weekend will be the weekend that we begin to work on nursery stuff, which includes a dreaded trip to Ikea. Hooray! He's such a trooper for agreeing to take a crazy hormonal pregnant lady to Ikea...I'm sure it will be quite the adventure.
Our nursery will look a little different than most traditional nurseries. After much talking, research, thinking, reading and planning...we have decided to create a Montessori nursery for our girl. A lot of people usually don't know what that means or think I've lost my mind when I explain how things usually work in such a nursery. I like to tell people that in a Montessori nursery the entire room becomes a crib...everything is safe for baby and the doorway is usually closed off with a gate. There is no actual physical crib, the child sleeps on a floor bed, once they're about 4 months old at least. Yes, a mattress on the floor (this is where people think I've lost my mind). There are many reasons for a floor bed, one of them being that once baby learns how to crawl she is able to move around her room to explore...we want to make sure we encourage her to move as much as possible. Just about everything in her room will be child sized and safe. My goal for her room is to create a soft calming environment that is organized, child friendly, comfortable and encourages independence.
Here are some examples of some of my favorite Montessori nurseries:
We are totally prepared in case our floor bed idea doesn't work. She might be a child who needs a crib in order to get solid sleep and that's totally fine. While we agree with a lot of the philosophies behind Montessori, we don't plan to stick to everything 100%. We have agreed to follow and be flexible about what works and what doesn't work for us. Once she's moving around some more we plan to make our entire home Montessori friendly to continue to encourage her independence.
Since a Montessori nursery is quite simple, we don't have many things we need to purchase. We've just got some organizing to get through and figure out the best layout for her room to create a place for sleep, play, eating and diaper changing. Since we already have a crib mattress, we plan to use that in the beginning to see how she does and at some point change it out for a full size or twin mattress so that I can lay with her to nurse. We plan to build or purchase a low shelf for her "work" materials, which in the beginning usually consist of wooden or natural handmade items. I've started researching and collecting ideas to create some interesting mobiles for her as well. I'm excited to see what it will all look like in the end! But, I'm most excited to see her in her room exploring her "work" and becoming her own little person.
And because I love pictures...here are some more to enjoy!
If anyone has created a Montessori home or nursery for their little ones, I'd love to see pictures! I'm excited to get started this weekend and get some organization going in her room...which looks like a major disaster at the moment.
Long time reader, but I usually just lurk ;). First off, congrats on Baby Girl!!!! I have read your blog for a while and was familiar with your journey to this point, and I have to say I was thrilled when you made your announcement. Second, LOVE the idea of a montessori nursery. My two and a half yr old is in a montessori preschool, and I am in the process of turning his nursery into a big boy montessori room. (By in the process, i mean looking at pictures, haha). You dont find a lot as far as this philosophy goes. If i ever get his room going I will send you some pics, as well as if i come across something that you didnt post here. :).
ReplyDeleteAlso, my hubby and I took our first trip to Ikea when I was bout 7.5 mos pregnant and let me tell you, we had the BEST time. We made a (week)day out of it and just had fun with it. The place is insane, but just keep reminding yourselves what you are there for, and you should be fine ;)
Congrats again! Cant wait to see a nursery tour!
Lori
www.maeinteriors.blogspot.com
Hi Lori! Thank you so much! If you ever get around to re-doing his room make sure you share! :-) You're right about not finding a lot in regards to Montessori at home...such a pain.
DeleteElsa, I am just so happy for you. Since I got the chance to meet you in person I have just felt such a sweet energy from you. Your nursery idea sounds really sweet.
ReplyDeleteYou are the sweetest Megan! Thank you!
DeleteElsa - thank you so much for sharing, I'd actually never heard of this and I'm absolutely intrigued. My husband and I are heading down the path of starting a family and this is absolutely something I'd like us to consider when the time comes. Do you know of any blogs/websites that you can recommend that provide more information about this method? Thank you again for sharing!! :-)
ReplyDeleteSome of of my favorite blogs/sites are:
Deletehttp://www.etsy.com/shop/MontessoriHouse
http://www.howwemontessori.com/how-we-montessori/
http://montessorihouse.blogspot.com/
http://www.montessorihomes.blogspot.com/
http://www.sewliberated.typepad.com/
I hope that helps! I plan to write up a post one of these days about books and other resources I have also used in the planning phase.